This article below was a submission written by a reader, who identified himself as The Veteran.
When looking for escorts, read their profile entirely. Few things worse than looking at a woman’s profile online, seeing her pics (which are probably fake), she shows up and is ready to walk out the door. Why? Because you failed to read the part on her profile that says, “No (enter ethnicity here).”
Yep. There are a lot of female, roughly 40% in American who have a preference of what kind of men they will not meet, and roughly 98.3% of them refuse to service African-Americans. The rest are prohibit either younger men, or only service a specific ethnicity (almost always white). Some women will be quite adamant with this by adding pics that will normally say “Sorry, No Black Guys.” Others will give minor clues such as No AA (African-American). When reading her profile, pay close attention to the paragraph that lists her preference and forbidden twerks.
For Black men like myself, don’t get mad. Think of it as women weeding themselves out of consideration by doing the work for you. I would not even consider a woman who says, “No Black men under 40,” because if she thinks all brothas under 40 are bad but suddenly switches to good at an age is wrong. Find someone who offers herself to all men. Even if she doesn’t list it, ask anyway just to be sure. When I find a woman who is ok with black men, I offer her a bit more money just to show that we are not all pimps, thugs, cheapskates, hostile gangsters and God knows what else people think of us as in a negative way. By chance if you do hire an escort and she cops an attitude or feel uncomfortable with you, send her away. Find someone else.
Finally, don’t think it just white women who do this on Backpage. ALL kinds of women exclude Black men, including our own. Makes you mad as hell. Don’t be, just wish them a silent quick trip to hell and find someone else. What I am saying is that there are a lot of women who label us, don’t give them the satisfaction of proving them right by going off (which would be quite justified). You want to get laid, try not to ruin the mood for yourself. Who and where can we find the most open minded women? I’ve found the Asians in Canada to be the best. But there are a few whom I would not recommend for this topic alone.